All realities are unique to the individual
You have your own reality, and everyone else has their own reality. There are lots of realities happening all at the same time!
All realities are independent of each other
Your reality is the only one you see, and others can only see their reality. This opens exploration and discovery of other realities.
The space to learn what is in other people’s realities
As you share your realities, you realize that every person has a world to explore, we relate meaningfully and heart-fully.
All realities are unique to the individual
You have your own reality, and everyone else has their own reality. There are lots of realities happening all at the same time!
All realities are independent of each other
Your reality is the only one you see, and others can only see their reality. This opens exploration and discovery of other realities.
The space to learn what is in other people’s realities
As you share your realities, you realize that every person has a world to explore, we relate meaningfully and heart-fully.
Program Overview
Part 1: What Creates Reality?
Understanding Separate Realities always begins with the source, or principles, which are required to create realities.
Sydney Banks uncovered the Three Principles – Mind, Thought, and Consciousness – which create every reality.
Sydney proposed to increase the accuracy and simplicity of reality by transferring to the Three Principles many psychological functions previously attributed to the “outside” or “form” such as people, circumstances, events, to name but a few.
As reality can now be attributed to the Three Principles, there is a extraordinary piece of knowledge that is no longer secret: reality takes place within Mind, and not “outside.” Wisdom is also within Mind, so we now have a bridge between wisdom and reality.
This allows us to have a scientific foundation in which to realize the gifts and wisdom of what Separate Realities can offer us.
Part 1: What Creates Reality?
There are Three Principles that create reality for each and every one of us.
The Principle of Mind
The Principle of Mind is where everything takes place, including the formless and realities as form.
The Principle of Thought
The Principle of Thought is the converter that turns something from the formless into a reality we now have.
The Principle of Consciousness
The Principle of Consciousness allows you to participate and respond to that reality, reality being the outcome of your thought.
Putting all Three Principles together as one give us this Reality Formula as written by Sydney Banks:
Mind + Thought + Consciousness = Reality
The Reality Formula allows us to have a reality, so we can participate and respond to it.
Life as we know it could not exist without us having a reality. Indeed, without a reality, we would have no means to acknowledge the existence of the physical world we live in. The Three Principles enable us to have a reality, and therefore the ability to connect with friends, family, and to forge new associations with others so our lives can be enriched. The Three Principles is a gift we can now use wisely, and give ourselves the chance to see others with a deeper, more universal love and genuine understanding that’s beyond words.
Part 2: How are realities separate?
The Reality Formula is what everybody uses to create their own personal reality every moment.
All realities are Thought in the moment
All realities derive and become alive via the Principle of Thought. This rules out any idea of a reality being created any other way.
Thought can only exist within the Mind
If Thought can only exist within the Mind, then reality must also take place within the Mind.
Everyone uses Thought to have a reality
Every individual has a Mind where reality takes place, therefore everyone is painting a picture of reality of their own.
All realities occur on an individual basis
As everyone has the ability to paint a reality via Thought, what is painted will be unique to the individual.
All realities are independent of each other
The reality you paint is created solely within your mind. So does everyone else. Therefore all realities are independent of each other.
There’s nothing within a reality that can be passed on
As everyone paints their own reality via Thought, it is impossible for people to paint the reality of others.
Separate Realities is a natural result of everybody having a reality
Getting onboard with the idea that everybody lives in a reality of their own, and is independent of everyone else’s, is both humbling and enlightening. We realize that we navigate our lives through a thought-created reality. Everyone is painting a reality in the Mind via the Principle of Thought moment to moment. Yet, all of these realities are unique to the individual and independent of other realities. Hence, Separate Realities.
“People don’t believe that there are separate realities. There are many, many, many separate realities. There are as many realities as there people on earth plus realities that people have never heard and they’re all real. It’s not a place; it’s a space. It’s a space in your head once again that holds the secret to all things, and if you can go into these separate realities, you go into separate levels of conscious state. The true realities begin when you go beyond the belief to the fact.” ~ Sydney Banks (The Quiet Mind)
Part 3: The Implications of Separate Realities
When you have insight realizing Separate Realities, it opens up profound implications. These implications evolves our understanding of realities, making us wiser and more intelligent at our use of the Three Principles.
There’s only one reality you can ever see – yours.
When you realize that *your* reality is the only one you can see, it won’t make sense to guess what is in other people’s reality.
You cannot experience other people’s thought and reality
You can only experience your reality in your Mind. This makes it impossible to experience other people’s realities.
Others cannot experience your thought and reality
Other people’s reality occur in their Mind, not yours. It is impossible for others to experience your reality.
An openness and curiosity of other people’s realities
When your reality is the only one you see, it no longer make sense to assume what is in other people’s realities without asking.
Understanding the nature of reality
Seeing how reality is created through thought, you make a distinction between the nature of reality and what is in your reality.
Knowing how reality is created makes it impersonal
Realizing how realities come to life for everyone, you have the context in which to understand the reality of others.
Everything you see, hear, feel, experience is within reality
All aspects of the human experience (or form) can only be brought to life within your reality, never anywhere else.
Reality can change at any moment
Reality is created via Thought in the moment, so the energy lies with Thought, not reality. Reality itself has no energy to keep itself going, which can disappear any moment, and a brand new reality can come in.
All realities are in the eye of the beholder
Reality is created via thought. And thought can only exist within Mind. Believing reality being anywhere else is the illusion.
No-one can move something in one person’s reality into another person’s reality.
Since everyone is using the Principle of Thought in their own way, there is no means for you to observe the outcome of other people’s thought. it’s extremely unlikely that two people will see another person in the same way. For example, a what a person wants to eat is going to be determined by the person’s thought. Yet, what you want to eat will be determined by your thought.
Part 4: The By-Products of Separate Realities
There are many delightful benefits for the human experience as a result of realizing Separate Realities.
Listening is transformed from seeing the nature of reality
Your listening is transformed because you now have the context in which to understand the reality of others.
Seeing the mental wellbeing and wisdom in others
As all realities emerged from the formless, the potential for something new to emerge and appear in everyone’s reality is never lost.
Forgiveness
“When you learn to forgive, you see with clarity the ignorance and the innocence of those who trespass against you.”
Sydney Banks
Having a quiet mind give you wise eyes and ears
As you are no longer second-guessing what is in other people’s reality, this eliminates a contamination that’s no longer required.
Becoming comfortable in your own skin with others
As all realities are independent of each other, you cannot be mentally affected by other people’s realities. You’re free to be you.
You see others as they are; appearing in your reality
Seeing others in your own reality is the space in which you see them with love and understanding.
Elimination of needing others to adopt a particular reality
As you see others have wisdom, there’s no need to ‘attempt’ to make others adopt any particular reality, usually as beliefs.
You don’t need others to love you for you to love them
As you reality comes from your use of the Principle of Thought, you’re free to love others as much as you want to.
There’s no disagreements that can cause conflict
As the formless is the source of mental wellbeing, you are free to think for yourself instead of fighting other people’s realities.
Removal of idolatry – a level playing field
Everyone uses the Three Principles to create their reality. This levels the playing field between people.
You never know how much you’ll learn from others
As we don’t know what is in other people’s realities, we never know how much we can learn from others.
Retaining objectivity about other people’s reality
You are objective when it comes to encountering the actions of others because your own reality isn’t being hijacked.
Freedom from the past
Because reality and wisdom exist in the now, it won’t make sense to use the past to override Thought as the source of your present day reality.
Life begins with the individual
Only the individual thinks. Only the individual have wisdom. Only the individual can learn. Only the individual experiences Thought. Only the individual has a reality.
Gaining psychological immunity from groupthink
Any group, no matter how small or large, has no ability to create a reality because a ‘group’ doesn’t have a mind.
Dropping grudges that weigh you down
Carrying a grudge is a burden that contaminates your reality. The Three Principles removes the negativity and positivity emerges instead.
Removal of right and wrong judgments
Beyond right and wrong, there is a state of mind that has wiser thoughts, deeper feelings, peaceful mind, and wisdom.
Cooperation and collaboration is the new standard
When two people know they have their own reality, this creates the space for cooperation and collaboration to occur. Connection!
Having less self-importance makes room for wisdom
Self-importance is God’s way of hiding Truth. The less we make it about us and more about Thought, the more room we make for insight.
Nobody to fix, because they are carrying mental wellbeing
Whether the other person knows they are mentally healthy or not, we have the eyes to see their innate mental health.
Taking offensive comments without accepting offence
When you hear something offensive, how you respond is 100% determined by whether you realize you’re in your own reality.
Thought creates the space for deeper conversations
Conversations are no longer recognized as being character-to-character. Instead, it’s a reality-to-reality (or thought-to-thought) conversation.
A more universal love and understanding
A love that isn’t for a particular person or any human being. It’s a universal love and with it, comes inspiring thoughts and feelings.
Living with hope and faith becomes the new normal
Hope and faith arises naturally when you realize that everything you see, feel, or hear comes from the Principle of Mind.
The benefits of Separate Realities are endless. It is a miracle we can realize these benefits!
Anyone who has insight into Separate Realities are unavoidably transformed to a higher conscious state. It’s a brand new reality we had no idea was possible to have. As we continue to ascend in our conscious state, the more love and understanding there will be in our hearts. This is the cure every individual in the world is looking for.
Your Guides
Keith Blevens, Ph.D., and Brett Chitty.
Keith Blevens, Ph.D.
Keith is a Three Principles educator, trainer, and consultant to executives, organizations, individuals, couples, and families for over 40 years.
Brett Chitty
Brett specializes in assisting you in realizing transformative wisdom via the Three Principles of Mind, Consciousness, and Thought.
The Miracle of Separate Realities
The more you realize how all realities are separate, the more inspiring relating to others become.